I really don't understand why Indians have such incredible guilt associations with finding a new partner after a relationship or marriage fails. It's almost as if they either berate for being selfish, greedy or wanton for wanting to move on and find happiness in the arms of another person.
A relationship is an attempt at finding someone who enhances your life, environment and personality and brings joy and stability. sometimes, we pick the wrong person and sometimes, the person was right for the time, but currently isn't an appropriate life companion for the road ahead. relationships are organic like plants. If a plant dies, it doesn't mean you won't plant a new one and simply let your garden become barren and console yourself with the memory of what was. the pursuit of happiness is neither a crime nor immoral.
People often withdraw from seeking new partners because of the fear of being judged and criticised and deny themselves the right to find a great life companion. if you don't want another partner, or feel you aren't ready for another partner, then its fine. but if you are basing the decision on "what is acceptable to others" and "what will people think", know one thing - it is you who wake up lonely and sleep lonely.The people who intimidate you into singledom, all have partners whom they go back home to every night. Everyone has the right to a happy ending.
The above words are definitely not mine, nor would i say that i support it or not support it. This blog is a remainder, just in case if you are fearing to go ahead in a new relationship afraid of what others would think of you.
Life goes on even after death of past.
A relationship is an attempt at finding someone who enhances your life, environment and personality and brings joy and stability. sometimes, we pick the wrong person and sometimes, the person was right for the time, but currently isn't an appropriate life companion for the road ahead. relationships are organic like plants. If a plant dies, it doesn't mean you won't plant a new one and simply let your garden become barren and console yourself with the memory of what was. the pursuit of happiness is neither a crime nor immoral.
People often withdraw from seeking new partners because of the fear of being judged and criticised and deny themselves the right to find a great life companion. if you don't want another partner, or feel you aren't ready for another partner, then its fine. but if you are basing the decision on "what is acceptable to others" and "what will people think", know one thing - it is you who wake up lonely and sleep lonely.The people who intimidate you into singledom, all have partners whom they go back home to every night. Everyone has the right to a happy ending.
The above words are definitely not mine, nor would i say that i support it or not support it. This blog is a remainder, just in case if you are fearing to go ahead in a new relationship afraid of what others would think of you.
Life goes on even after death of past.
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